My Ugly Duckling Hands
My hands are not my favorite feature on my body. In fact, for years I tried to hide them. They’re not pretty. Not special. Not smooth and lean like everyone else. They’re not, well, typical.
But.
I have 10 fingers. And here’s their story…
At age 7 my parents thought it would be a good idea to get me into piano lessons.
I remember being very little and it took me three weeks to get through Blow the Man Down. I cried and cried, but dad-gum it, I learned it and earned my coveted star sticker.
Soon, I advanced to higher levels. My fingers began to obey the commands of my brain more readily. Notes came to the tip of my fingers more quickly. I played Fur Elise and Moonlight Sonata with the best of them, tackled the quick paced Toccatina, and struggled through Bach more than once.
My hands began to actually play music. Not just notes…music.
At about age 10 or so, my parents bought me a new little upright and I was on top of the world.
Soon, I figured out I could play AND sing. Oh, Amy Grant was my BFF in the private times in my room. I’d play Fat Baby and Raining on the Inside and sing my heart out.
At my first college, I’d slip away and play all by myself in the afternoon when no one was in the practice rooms. I loved that feeling of being alone, just me and the piano. Something comforting about my hands on eighty-eight black and whites and the freedom to create whatever my soul felt like.
These hands began to play the big boys: Beethoven, Chopin, Mozart, Liszt, Debussy, Bach, Gerswhin. And for that, my dad bought me my most treasured possession in my house next to baby pictures and my Bible– my Kawaii Semi-Concert Grand.
It was there for me when I was heart broken and needed to weep and play in silence in the dark. It was with me when I’d cry and practice for hours for the biggest recital of my life. It put out sweet music to my tiny baby in my womb. It kept me company when my husband was out of town. It kept perfect pitch when I needed to sing to Jesus for awhile.
Soon, these hands figured out how to play worship songs without sheet music. Then and there I moved into a whole new level of the art of piano playing. To mix the years of theory studies with the Spirit of Worship is to make something new and beautiful every time.
I’ve worshipped on so many stages with so many followers of Jesus. I’ve wept at the piano unable to make it through songs. I’ve played through communion as believers remembered what Christ did on the Cross. I’ve sang the offertory song for those who needed to hear a new word over their lives. I’ve stopped singing in my microphone just to listen to their voices lift up the name of Jesus. I’ve sat behind that piano and secretly prayed for those out there who’s story had just been interrupted by tragedy and heartache. I’ve stared holes into those who didn’t know Jesus and prayed that maybe that day would be the day they surrendered.
Sadly, it’s been almost four years since I had the honor and privilege of playing the piano and singing on a worship team. Oh, how I miss it. That part of my life is over for awhile and that’s okay. I didn’t realize how much I missed it until right now, with beautiful music in my ear as I type oh, I do miss it.
Now, these hands that have played millions of notes and years of playing for worship have found a new place. Here, on this computer, they fly around and play for you laughter, insight, truth, and love.
If you can’t hear the music of my hands anymore, hear them in the clicking of my keyboard.
They still play music, it’s just in another form now.
I love my hands. Though I viewed them as a weakness, Christ used for His glory. I think I’ve heard that somewhere before…
But he said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.” Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ’s power may rest on me.








Beautiful post.
Sounds to me like you have amazingly beautiful hands. Hands that give glory to God must be beautiful.
I loved reading about your love for playing the piano. My daughter shares that love. I love listening while she plays. She’s only 13, so I know she’ll just get better and better. She wants to tackle Clare de Lune? Is that how you say it? She heard a snippet of it on one of your videos and a friend also recommended it to her. I’ll have to find her the music.
Through each season of your life may your hands serve you, God and others well.
Lovely!! I have a few friends that are anointed on the piano and I absolutely love worshipping to what God does thru them on that beautiful instrument!!
Terrific post! I love this story – especially the last sentence that what you viewed as weakness, Christ used for His glory – Yes, He IS using you for his glory!!
I needed this today!
It is just another or the beautiful facets that make you an amazing mentor to women. You truly inspire me in your coolness.
Thanks Nat!
Good stuff…if there is one thing I have learned it is that God can take the horrible situations, those meant for evil and use them for His glory! Thank you Jesus!!!
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I love when God turns something we dont like about our self into something wonderful!
Beautiful!!
I for one am glad that you now make music on your keyboard and that it shares laughter, insight, truth, and love with us!!
I enjoy and appreciate it always!!
As I am still learning… there are seasons in our lives. Your seasons may circle around again someday to bring you back to piano playing and singing (or you could do a how-to video to share it with us now)
I love this post. As as singer, I completely understand the emotions you wrote about. Crying over heart broken people, staring (oh, so discreetly) at people who need the Lord. My favorite part of singing onstage is being able to hear the church lift up the name of Jesus in a song I’m leading them in. Oh, so sweet. There is a season for everything, and I am as sure as the day is long that someone who obviously has a passion for leading others in worship like you do will again be able to use those hands at the piano for that purpose again. In the meantime, we get the privilege of “listening” to your other music right now. I, for one, am grateful!
Beautiful…thank you. I can also relate as I am on our church’s worship team. I often cry in the realization that not only am I doing what I love, but I am doing what God loves for me to do – I am lifting my voice up to Him. It is His gift to me given back as it is often the only thing that I can afford. My how I love God!
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and THAT is why you are a writer.
wow.
Oh, now that I’ve read your post here, your comment on my post at Internet Cafe about my terrible piano playing means even more. This was a beautiful post.
You can play for me anytime, baby. Keyboard or piano.
Isn’t it amazing the parts of us that God chooses to glorify Himself?
You people are so great! I’m sure that one day, we’ll all get to see just what impact we had on this earth. What a great time we’ll all have!
How-to video! HA!
Sadly, I have no musical talent. My boys are the musicians. Someone told me, a couple of years ago, that I have “man hands”. What a thing to say to a girl. Now I hide them away. Since reading this post though, I have a new outlook to try. I like to “make music” with my typing too.
You inspired me. I wrote a post, I linked to you and I crowned myself Techno-Wizard of the Day!
Girl, I am crying! That too is a close path to what I’ve walked. I love it when God opens new doors for us to crawl through, however I miss the ones He closes in the process. Beautfiul – just beautiful!